and handed it to me, the probelm is i want to send each of them a thank you note but i don’t know who got what so how would I say thank you for the……, when i don;t know who got what for me ? has anybody ever been in a similar situation ? please help.
Yes, that happened to me too. But here’s the deal: they are the ones who put the gifts in one bag, right? Therefore, there’s no reason for them to expect you to know who gave you what. You do owe them each a separate thank-you note, but unless you’re comfortable asking who gave what, you will just need to do a general thank-you and mention something else like how you appreciate them thinking of you or how it means a lot that they’ve been there for you during your pregnancy. Mention something specific that each person has DONE or MEANT to you rather than listing the merchandise they gave you. A person likes to know that THEY mean something to you and not the amount of money they spent. They aren’t going to analyze the card - trust me. They will read it, register in their head that you sent it, and then move on to other things. That said, however, DO NOT write the exact same thing on each friend’s card. Congrats on the baby, hon!!!