Sweet Baby Gifts

I’m 18 she is 17 we are like family friends, me and her have known each other since we were babies we acturally have baby pictures together even one kissing lol I don’t know how we are babies then. Anyway though the years me and her were the greatest friends ever doing everything together. Movies, beach, travel, the gym (me workout her only to keep in shape) and even clubbing. So yesterday was my 18th birthday now I noticed she was dressed in a big shirt and interesting skirt she always dresses up sexy but that wasn’t her. So she hugs me tells me happy birthday and our parents tell us go to my room to hang out and she gave me her gifts, an Ed hardy shirt, the rocky DVD collection and well something unexpected. She said "I have a special gift for you" she took off her skirt and shirt and there was a white bra and a belly dancer skirt and she popped kissed me and whispered "happy birthday baby" And she walk back a couple of steps and started belly dancing really sensual. Slowing something fast moving her hips I was in shock and the best birthday gift o my life but then mom walked in and (my mom treats her a like a daughter) and started yelling and got really mad saying WTF is this what are you doing watching her dance like that. I’m so confused first why did she give such an intimate birthday gift and two why did my mother get so mad we weren’t doing anything bad or sexual. Explain please and thank yiu

um thats not a normal birthday gift a GIRL would give to a GIRL
your mom has reason to be freaked out

I’m 18 she is 17 we are like family friends, me and her have known each other since we were babies we acturally have baby pictures together even one kissing lol I don’t know how we are babies then. Anyway though the years me and her were the greatest friends ever doing everything together. Movies, beach, travel, the gym (me workout her only to keep in shape) and even clubbing. So yesterday was my 18th birthday now I noticed she was dressed in a big shirt and interesting skirt she always dresses up sexy but that wasn’t her. So she hugs me tells me happy birthday and our parents tell us go to my room to hang out and she gave me her gifts, an Ed hardy shirt, the rocky DVD collection and well something unexpected. She said "I have a special gift for you" she took off her skirt and shirt and there was a white bra and a belly dancer skirt and she popped kissed me and whispered "happy birthday baby" And she walk back a couple of steps and started belly dancing really sensual. Slowing something fast moving her hips I was in shock and the best birthday gift o my life but then mom walked in and (my mom treats her a like a daughter) and started yelling and got really mad saying WTF is this what are you doing watching her dance like that. I’m so confused first why did she give such an intimate birthday gift and two why did my mother get so mad we weren’t doing anything bad or sexual. Explain please and thank yiu

Hmmm well Obviously she likes you.!
Well im not a girl so im just saying Go with the Flow, You never know you might like it.

I’m a Guy 18 she is 17 we are like family friends, me and her have known each other since we were babies we acturally have baby pictures together even one kissing lol I don’t know how we are babies then. Anyway though the years me and her were the greatest friends ever doing everything together. Movies, beach, travel, the gym (me workout her only to keep in shape) and even clubbing. So yesterday was my 18th birthday now I noticed she was dressed in a big shirt and interesting skirt she always dresses up sexy but that wasn’t her. So she hugs me tells me happy birthday and our parents tell us go to my room to hang out and she gave me her gifts, an Ed hardy shirt, the rocky DVD collection and well something unexpected. She said "I have a special gift for you" she took off her skirt and shirt and there was a white bra and a belly dancer skirt and she popped kissed me and whispered "happy birthday baby" And she walk back a couple of steps and started belly dancing really sensual. Slowing something fast moving her hips I was in shock and the best birthday gift o my life but then mom walked ain and (my mom treats her a like a daughter) and started yelling and got really mad saying WTF is this what are you doing watching her dance like that. I’m so confused first why did she give such an intimate birthday gift and two why did my mother get so mad we weren’t doing anything bad or sexual. Explain please and thank you

She clearly likes you dude. Are you dense?

Hi guys! My boyfriend speaks English but not enough to understand something this complex. The other day he wants to know why i won’t wear a bikini- he thinks I have a nice body- and I want to explain better to him… Thanks!!

Baby,
I want to try and explain to you why I am insecure about my body. I do not know how to explain earlier, but now I am trying. You told me alot about your life the other night, so I am going to try and let my guard down and tell you more.

When I was younger - maybe 16,17, 18, I am very confident girl with my body. I was the first one to get sent home from school for a dress too short, I loved skirts and bikins or anything. Then, I loved my body. I was the vuluptous girl that matured early and I got alot of attention for it. When I was 19, I met a man that promised me the world, money, houses, expensive gifts, just everything. I know I not in love, but I listen to my dad, and he told me, Christina, you are beautiful girl and there is no reason for you to marry a poor man. Beautiful women should be taken care of. I am young, and even though my heart says no, I listen to my dad and get engaged. Well to make a long story short, in the end the man is a fraud, he is nothing he said he was. Not his name, not his age, what he does for a living, nothing. I am engaged to a lie. He had maybe 30,000 from when his dad died and he spent it all on me to play the big man. But when the money ran out, his lies are exposed. He was mentally ill. Maybe 5 years later I saw him with another really young girl at a resturant and he told his name is different and all kinds of lies. I tried to warn her. Anyways, it really messed me up and I start to have weird things happen, like my hands and head would go numb, and would have panic attacks. So my mom took me to the doctor and they gave me medicine for anxiety. I am young, I have no idea what anxiety is or why I feel this way, so I take it. I gained 50 pounds in 5 months and it gave me stretch marks. The medicine is off the market now for keeping peoples body from burning fat. Anyways, I loose it all and the stretch marks are not really that bad anymore. I can tan and you can’t see them. Maybe two years later I hate them, I want them to go away, so I try something where you exfoliate your skin. Well, big mistake. It made the
500 times worse. It brought out new ones everywhere, Made my skin look wrinkley and I am really angry. They used to be almost invisible, and I feel I have ruined myself. I can tan but you can see them now. I have them on my thighs, my ass, my hips, everwhere. I feel like a zebra! I laid in bed for two days and cried because instead of excepting my small flaws, I want to be perfect and I messed myself up. It is a hard one to swallow when you do it to yourself. So after that then I never want to wear skirts, shorts or anything. I am no longer the confident person I used to be. For years I feel restrained from being who I feel inside. I still do. I love clothes, I love short dresses, I love skirts, bit I do no wear because I hate my stretch marks. I struggled with this for alot of years. I would glady pay any price if there was a way to get rid of them and be myself again but there isn’t. The last couple years, I am older, I see friends my age die, and I am more mature. I realize I am just happy to be alive and my flaws are not the most important thong anymore. But still, I do no wear what I want, and I am always wear jeans. It sucks, but that I why. Maybe now you understand. To alot of people it is stupid, bit to me it is a big deal, it makes me feel uncomfortable, so I just never do what I want. And you thought you had problems, haha!!

Really you need to get the English correct.

Your tenses are mixed, and you have typing errors - "I do no wear what I want" ?

My waist is slender, my hips are FLIPPING huge. 2 babies in 2 years has taken its toll. I have a 34B cup and genetics gave me the gift of thick man shoulders. Every wedding guide I look through gives me a body shape that sounds NOTHING like me. HELP I don’t want to look like a beast on my wedding!

Avoid a dress that is too nipped in at the waist as it can make your shoulders (and hips) look bigger. Ah a V neck line can down play the broadness of your shoulders.Go with a fuller bottom (the dress) to balance out your shoulders and slightly hide the hips, make sense?
Could try and look for a dress with some kind of sleeves? like a loose flowy sleeve. I know some dresses can look AWFUL with a sleeve but some women and dresses do work well. Have you gone out and tried on almost every dress in sight?
Ah you could look for a dress that has some detailing around the hip area, maybe like this?
http://www.weddingdaysofcheltenham.co.uk/mebrooch.jpg
http://www.ibay.hk/image.php?id=4673&type=D
Also big hips ARE beautiful, remember that

Dad likes- photography (no books), Cars (no NASCAR stuff) Owns a bakery (no cook books). Likes BOundary waters and nature so like camping (no camping trips)

Mom- Already got a spa day. Likes Photography also, Spas (massages), eating out at Olive Garden, Not a Shopping mother, likes her dogs and horse (i want to get her another puppy cause the female she has has allergies to 24 different things).

Sister- she’s turning 16 NOT AT ALL into makeup,clothes, Or anything girly. She LOVES music Jazz, Christain, modern (no Hip Hop or Rap) oldies, Plays Piano already has a keyboard, Loves horses but she is going to college in 2 years and can’t get 1. LOVES art also. I’m thinking of doing her sweet 16 b-day cake? Like Piano,Art, and then her name? her b-day is December 21. she LOVES reading.

Sister- she is turning 2 (Jan.) LOVES babies and animals (no baby dolls or stuffed animals) doesn’t play with blocks likes books but has 2 many. likes animal sounds.

Me- Aunts want to know what i want for christmas…..have iPod touch don’t want cell phone have 2 much makeup,nail polish, hair stuff, i like spas and i want my own ‘tranquil’ room (you know like spa themed) love bright colors. can’t ask for money they say it’s no fun. I like books (no twilight or vampire books only good books no ppl dieing) and summer. To many clothes, I want a laptop but they won’t buy one so i was going to ask for money to save up and they won’t do it! i’m 13 btw.

Please nothing stupid i want an answer for everyone! i’m NOT creative that’s my older sister and my younger sister gets ALL the attention (along with my older sis)

THANKS EVERYONE!

Dad- a model car to put together, canteen, digital picture keychain, a plain scrapbook for him to fill up

Mom- a plain scrapbook to fill up, a picture frame, trinket box or keepsake box

Sister 16- some books since she likes reading. Sarah Dessen books are good, Nancy Drews, Chicken Soup for Teen Soul books, bulletin board for her room (you could decorate it with things she likes..music note stickers, bookmark, artsy stuff)

Sister 2- a dvd of Christmas cartoons

You- Nancy Drew mysteries, The Babysitters Club series, The American Girl series, a bulletin board for your room, new bedding for your room, a show you like on dvd, a magazine subscription, sphere chair for your room (they have all colors), gift card to Claire’s, new pjs, slippers, posters, cds, dvds, games.

I know that’s a little bit vague, but here are some examples of what im after…

Consider this as a gift as you taste him on your lips
And he’s making you scream with his hands on your hips
I hope he’s leaving you empty, baby
This is just a fix for such a simple little whore

you’re so guilty its disgusting, shes been sneaking underneath your sheets & your hands are going places that they probably shouldn’t go, but don’t worry sweetie, cause i already know.

and you tease them all by sucking on your thumb
cause you look so much cuter with something in your mouth.
i want sexy kinda cute lyrics.
not disgusting and abrupt.
and not an entire song thankyou.
just little sayings.

hey yo crazy b**** though u f*** so good im on top of it wen i dream of doing u all night scratches all done my back keep it right on

(thats just the chorus to a song by buckcherry itss called crazy b****)

go home get stoned cause sex is so much better wen ur mad at me!

(i think thats also by buckcherry)

Me and my friend wrote a song.
Tell me what you think
BE BRUTALLY HONEST.
Also, let me know what style it should be sung in.
Example: Country, classical, hip-hop, rap?
Thanks A lot!

You make me go around when you touch the ground.
I felt so sad when you looked at my dad and he told you to leave.
I could see you weren’t pleased.
But, we had some fun out there in the sun
And I just wanna let you know that

Last night, at your place, on a date.
I thought it was fate.

But then you went through my phone again and again,
I thought down the road we could actually be friends.

CHORUS
You told me lies, so I said good-bye to you.
I’m not your boo.

Last weekend you asked me to lend you my new C-D
But instead, I found out you were just playin me
When your with your boys you treat my like a toy,
Like I’m a cheap plastic doll,
Well I wanna tell you,
You’re not getting another call.

You were sweet to me.
Saying that we would always be in love forever
Now I’m telling you it’s never … gunna happen.

You told the world rumours about me.
Don’t hide underneath your skin
There’s no way out, I win
I know you cheated, and you lied
I know who you are even under your disguise
So just let me be free.
So let me be.

CHORUS
You told me lies, so I had to say good-bye to you.
I needa let you know
You better not come to my show.
And I swear to you.
I’m not your boo.

You gave me gifts and spoiled me like crazy
You can take it all back I don’t wanna hear you call me baby
And telling me that I’m your yellow sweet daisy.
I threw it all out; you can go threw the trash.
The dinners you payed for, just take all the cash.
Go check my text-messages I deleted them all.
You even ditched me for your friends at the mall.
I should’ve seen it before, and kicked you out the door.
Now I’m stuck in this place, just thinking in space.
About how you treated me, and how I couldn’t see.
That you were mean, you were rude,
You didn’t care about me, just like I was a dude.
This wasn’t real, not for me or you.
And I really feel used.

CHORUS
You told me lies, so I had to say good-bye to you.
I needa let you know
That you gotta go
And I swear to you.
I’m not your boo.

Back in the day I thought that some day we were gunna have a future.
You screwed it all up, and now I’m stuck in muck, just tryna find a cure.

CHORUS
You told me lies, so I had to say good-bye to you.
I needa let you know
That you gotta go
And I swear to you.
I’m not your boo.

THANKS GUYS !

i like the chorus some parts are just weird tho
maybe r and b or rap

Me and my friend wrote a song.
Tell me what you think
BE BRUTALLY HONEST.
Also, let me know what style it should be sung in.
Example: Country, classical, hip-hop, rap?
Thanks A lot!

You make me go around when you touch the ground.
I felt so sad when you looked at my dad and he told you to leave.
I could see you weren’t pleased.
But, we had some fun out there in the sun
And I just wanna let you know that

Last night, at your place, on a date.
I thought it was fate.

But then you went through my phone again and again,
I thought down the road we could actually be friends.

CHORUS
You told me lies, so I said good-bye to you.
I’m not your boo.

Last weekend you asked me to lend you my new C-D
But instead, I found out you were just playin me
When your with your boys you treat my like a toy,
Like I’m a cheap plastic doll,
Well I wanna tell you,
You’re not getting another call.

You were sweet to me.
Saying that we would always be in love forever
Now I’m telling you it’s never … gunna happen.

You told the world rumours about me.
Don’t hide underneath your skin
There’s no way out, I win
I know you cheated, and you lied
I know who you are even under your disguise
So just let me be free.
So let me be.

CHORUS
You told me lies, so I had to say good-bye to you.
I needa let you know
You better not come to my show.
And I swear to you.
I’m not your boo.

You gave me gifts and spoiled me like crazy
You can take it all back I don’t wanna hear you call me baby
And telling me that I’m your yellow sweet daisy.
I threw it all out; you can go threw the trash.
The dinners you payed for, just take all the cash.
Go check my text-messages I deleted them all.
You even ditched me for your friends at the mall.
I should’ve seen it before, and kicked you out the door.
Now I’m stuck in this place, just thinking in space.
About how you treated me, and how I couldn’t see.
That you were mean, you were rude,
You didn’t care about me, just like I was a dude.
This wasn’t real, not for me or you.
And I really feel used.

CHORUS
You told me lies, so I had to say good-bye to you.
I needa let you know
That you gotta go
And I swear to you.
I’m not your boo.

Back in the day I thought that some day we were gunna have a future.
You screwed it all up, and now I’m stuck in muck, just tryna find a cure.

CHORUS
You told me lies, so I had to say good-bye to you.
I needa let you know
That you gotta go
And I swear to you.
I’m not your boo.

THANKS GUYS !

uhhhhhhhhhh…..okay..for one its too long. you could shorten it up a bit and make it rhyme a little more…it might be a good idea to take out all the verses that have to do with electronics. thats so annoying. this digital age we live in totally sucks. anyway, its good just needs some tweaking. and with the boo word involved, this song should be r and b, or soft core rap.

Ok warning this poem does capture very strong and graphical situations and emotions. Its focus is child abuse so beware!

You can let go now daddy I understand
My wrists are starting to hurt now daddy what defines you a man
Throwing little girls into dark rooms drinking til your angry
I hear you head to the bar again please dont forget me
I dont like this place the memories jump at me
I remember when mummy was around that is what made you happy
But she is gone for good now time to stop livin in the past
Hours pass by but i hear your home at last
You curse my name as you walk up the stairs open up the door
The light hurts as it hits my eyes please daddy i dont want this anymore
You look into my eyes they were once so full of life
But now tears shimmer within them as they are wouded by the light
You spit on me as you say I wish you never were born
I hope you realise i blame you for your mother being gone
Such a pretty face you have how about we colour it black and blue
You just sit in the corner crying and I will leave you with some scars too
I have never seen him this angry never felt him so mad
And as he throws me against the wall I know this will end bad
Had enough yet he questions with an evil smile
I nod my head politely and he leaves me for a while
But soon he comes back I see a storm within his eyes
I smell the bourbon on his breath it can tell no lies
He pushes me too my knees I hear him release his fly
He comes from behind me and all I can do is cry
I used to do this to your mother he whispers in my ear
She never wanted it either but its the reason you are here
I feel my face get flushed as blood runs down my thigh
But he doesn’t bother to clean me he leaves it there to dry
Now i know why mum left she finally got her chance
A daughter to distract him fresh flesh for his twisted dance
His smile is now conniving as he stares into my eyes
Your mother attempted to fight me off she did actually try
She said that you were her baby that she was leaving me that day
But i followed her then i blocked her way
I through her against the wall she promised she would stay
And when you turned 5 my girl she decided to run away
She left you to suffer so I have a gift for you
Lay on your back and watch as I climb over you
My eyes were burnin as he did so my heart slumped within my chest
He hit my face as he raped me under the veil of my dress
Then he turned me over hit me from behind
My face hit the ground hard this time he’d lost his mind
A few more hard blows I suffered as I screamed
Blood had started to stain the floor right in front of me
I felt his weight upon my spine then i heard it crack
I knew i couldn’t stand as i could no longer feel my back
He brought his hand down carrying such a force
Holdng down my head pushing it againt the floor
I feel the pressure on me as he starts to crush my jaw
The entire time i whimper as i stare out the door
You can let go now daddy I whisper to his ear
You have just what you want daddy my mind full of fear
You can let go now daddy it hurts please understand
Who are you deceiving this dont make you a man
He grabs me by the ankles,drags my down the stairs to a full length mirror in which I lay
What do you see before you he questions me and I just cry as i look away
What do you see now he asks as he takes his stand
I see a coward I whisper I do not see a man
He looks at me with pure hatred grabs me by the wrists
Guess what this time daddy will let go he softly whispers
And as he swings me round I feel him release his grip
And into a wall I fly as the plasterboard fractures my hip
He puts me back before the mirror, "wanna know what i see
A girl so battered and bruised she finally looks like her mummy"
He watches as a tear slowly covers my cheek
"You can let go now daddy please just let me be"
And as he walked out of the room I hoped he wouldnt turn back
I still feared him every second til my surroundings turned black.

I am a 19 yr old girl who is 8 months off bringing a baby into a world of horror. With sexual assault, child abuse, domestic abuse, abductions and famine. So I have those 8 months to get the word out and try to stop some of the injustice that newborn babies are being welcomed into. Sure at this age they do not know what is happening but what about when they are 6? Seeing pictures of children on the news women with black eyes and families crying. What then? What can we tell our babies, our treasures that the world is a horrible place that they have to watch theirback round every bend that they can’t enjoy their childhood because of fear? Or do we tell them that some times mummies and daddies hit their own kids? Or do we lie say that their dog died? Its time to realise that times are causing more stress people are snapping. Do we want the next generation to be caught in the middle of it. ITS TIME TO STOP CHILD ABUSE!

this poem is sad, and amazing. bringing thoughts and questions to mind. wondering how some people can be considered human. i’m 16 and it’s sad to hear this. my dad use to beat my mother and me and my sisters. he stopped as i grew older and stronger. I just hope you know this world is not only known as horror but that there are people who can show kindness. I wish you the best of luck and that your storm is no more. May you and your child be safe.

contact me through e-mail:
Faletogo4lyfe@yahoo.com
I’m 16 so i won’t harm you or anything but i am friendly.

Best of luck buddy =)